Couples Counseling

Are you stuck in day-to-day routine, 
relating less like a couple and more like coworkers?
Longing to put the passion and intimacy back into your relationship?
Going through a crisis or transition that is putting more stress on your 
relationship than ever before?

Relationship Counseling



We Can Offer You

A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARTNER.

A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.

COUPLES WORK CAN HELP YOU
  • Establish emotional and sexual intimacy
  • Get through a crisis such as infidelity or addiction
  • Learn how your personal history impacts your relationship
  • Learn how to reduce the emotionally charged responses that come from old scripts
  • Create more joy and aliveness
SOME TOPICS COUPLES SEEK GUIDANCE FOR

Where Are You Now?

  • Stuck in day-to-day routine, relating less like a couple and more like coworkers?
  • Longing to put the passion and intimacy back into your relationship?
  • Going through a crisis or transition that is putting more stress on your relationship than ever before?
OPPORTUNITIES IN DISGUISE
  • Even if you are feeling desperate right now, this may be exactly where you are meant be in order to move your relationship from gridlock to growth. 
  • Most couples experience difficult times in their relationship. This is normal and one of the growth opportunities that long-term relationships provide. 
  • When partners navigate these challenges with commitment and skills they can use in their relationship problems to develop themselves as individuals.
  • We help partners bring their best self to the relationship.


How We Work

While many therapists offer the neutrality of traditional couples therapy, we will step in to correct unhelpful behaviors and suggest skills to replace them that you can practice between sessions. We believe the length of treatment can be shortened by meeting for longer sessions that are weeks apart. This helps to deepen the therapy which ultimately enhances overall growth and relationship progress.

Our first meeting lasts 90 minutes for individuals and two hours for couples. By the end of the first meeting we will identify the essential problem or unique dance that is keeping you stuck as a couple and discuss the steps that will help shift your pattern. 
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.
Friedrich Nietzsche