got Skills?

Many of us believe that if we choose the right partner then they should know what we need and give it to us. That marriage shouldn’t require a lot of discussion or effort. 
However, we practice anything to the limits of our own development. The same holds true for relationships. We may be skilled in some areas and less so in others. If our skill set does not match up well with the problem area, we are left doing the best we can with what we have. Therefore, as a couple you may rely on whatever skills each of you bring to the table. Add in the need for privacy and a Do It Yourself work ethic, and you may find yourself stuck for years. In this sense conflict can be seen as growth trying happen. New skills can diversify your toolbox and help shift you out of the dance that you and your partner have fallen into. As you increase your skills and self-awareness you'll likely experience, as others have, a reduction in frequency, intensity and duration of your disconnection.

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